My dad also organized a 'party' in church for mum's birthday. They had this gardening / cleaning event going on in the afternoon and after the event, he organize a dinner and a simple celebration. He went to book this agar-agar cake himself too. I think its very sweet :) I wish my husband next time will still be this sweet when we're 50 already.
I got a super short video of the birthday song, with jiang shi mu playing the piano. Hehehe. Camera went out of batt. Luckily I shot some pictures before then already :)